Haters didn't get that way by themselves. They had a lot of help. Children/babies are instantly friends or connected to other babies naturally, innocently. They learn from their first teachers, their parents. They take cues and absorb the rules, learning how to be in the world based on their surroundings. In short, we all have at least a little of the STUFF we learned and carry from our childhood. Remind yourself that 1 action of love is more powerful than 1 million actions of death and don't become the moment or the hater before you. Be love and leave the haters to themselves.